Archive | July 2016

Inspiration ❀

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“‘You’re a good mother,’ Addie says suddenly. I look down at her, shocked. ‘I see that now,’ she continues, eying me with a hint of surprise. ‘You put up with a lot of crap, mainly from your husband, but somehow you manage to keep things together. You wanted to slap that woman in the bathroom, and maybe you should’ve, but I can’t really fault you for having self-control.’ As the elevator doors open, she steps inside and turns to me. ‘Parents can really screw their children up, but I think you’re the kind of parent who makes her children have better, happier lives. I wish all parents were like you.’ I stare at her, shocked by this sudden outpouring. ‘Are you coming?’ she adds. ‘I really think we should get home now.’ She looks around at the elevator’s interior. ‘These things are so shiny and neat. And so full of potential.’”

I read a fiction book called The Death of Addie Gray, a supernatural thriller about a nine year old little girl who suffers an accident while out with her mom one day and is in a comatose state for nine months. She finally wakes up and her mom is beyond thrilled, of course, what mom wouldn’t be when her baby wakes up after nine months being comatose! She wasn’t expected to ever wake up and the doctors kept encouraging the family to have the life support terminated.

But when Addie wakes up, she claims she isn’t Addie, that she’s another girl, an older girl.

There won’t be any big spoilers here, just so you know.

So this mom has to face the possibility that just maybe the soul of another girl inhabited her daughter’s body while her daughter was comatose and that maybe her daughter’s own soul has vacated the body.

This mother is not very spiritual and doesn’t really believe in ghosts and stuff of that sort so it’s difficult for her to entertain these thoughts. It’s a horror novel written by author Amy Cross.

The quote above is out of the book.

It’s one of my favorite scenes in the book because it’s so inspiring how the one character, a young girl, beautifully, genuinely compliments this woman.

And what greater compliment for a mom to receive than being told she’s a great mom! πŸ˜€

I find it inspiring for two reasons. One, it’s always inspiring when a woman\girl genuinely compliments another! We really should consider doing that more often, wouldn’t that be great?! Also, it’s inspiring to see that this woman is a great mom who contributes to her daughter’s happiness and helps her grow and lavishes nothing but love onto her. We can do this for everyone we encounter whether or not we are a parent. Let’s help others grow, focus on their strengths, accept their weaknesses, build each other up, like a mother does for her child.

This is a horror novel, gory in some scenes, scary but also inspiring in some ways. The mother’s fierce love for her daughter is evident all throughout , she puts her daughter first during the nine month ordeal and after she wakes up. Every waking second is spent making sure her daughter is safe and healthy, before, during, and after the nine month long nightmare.

So even in gory horror novels and movies there may be little gems of inspiration scattered about.

Also, I love how the character , quoted above, is in awe of elevators , a mundane aspect of life we probably think nothing of each day. This reminds me to give thanks more frequently for inventions & discoveries we encounter each day but often overlook. Imagine if air conditioners , cars, cell phones, elevators, seat belts, public transportation, fans, Internet….were never invented. Imagine if electricity was never discovered. Let’s look at the world with new eyes and give thanks for everyone & everything and lavish love onto everyone we meet. πŸ’•

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Much love & light to you,

 

Xoxo Kim

Live πŸ’Ÿ

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This is a picture I took of the TV screen when I was watching a movie called something like “Hitcher.” (I put the stickers on) I don’t really like the movie but this is an inspiring quote. The movie is gory and full of violence.

The handwriting is terrible, isn’t it?! (If it’s an adult’s) Lol! My own handwriting is atrocious and embarrassing so I can say that. πŸ˜‰

I love how this says “Live to live another day.”

It’s so simple. I often see posts, quotes, suggestions….for “finding” or Β  “creating” our “purpose” or “reasons for living” but to me, the reason to live and my purpose is just to live, to see another day and all the beauty it brings.Β 

We don’t need a Β specific purpose or answer, in my opinion. It’s great to have passions and interests, family, friends, goals, dreams, plans, talents, jobs, questions, pursuits…. But I don’t think any of those are our reason for living. First of all they may not always be around or around in the same way. People, pets come and go, we can lose jobs and our ability to do certain things, our plans and interests can change….but we still have purpose and a reason to be. And even if we have people and things around forever and maintain the same interests always, they are only part of us, not all of us. Β We have a reason & purpose all on our own. 😍

Let’s live to live another day. No matter what we have or don’t have or what is happening within or around us. πŸ’— This especially inspires me because I struggle with severe suicidal depression and when I’m having an episode, I usually do not see a reason to go on living. I often ask myself “Why go on?, Why live?”

This reminds me to live to live another day. Each day is a gift even when it doesn’t feel like it. πŸ’ I hope if you share my struggle you will choose life. Always choose life. πŸ’“

And if you don’t struggle with suicidal inclination like me, I hope you still find it inspiring. There are various interpretations to things and ways to be inspired.Β 

Much love & light today and always…

 

Xoxo

πŸ’• Kim

 

 

 

 

Compassion

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“In separateness lies the world’s great misery, in compassion lies the world’s true strength.” πŸ’™πŸ’šπŸ’›πŸ’πŸ’“πŸ’•πŸ’ŸπŸ’–πŸ’—πŸ’žπŸ’œβ€πŸ’˜

I hope you are having a wonderful day or night wherever in the world you are! πŸ˜€

 

Xoxo Kim

Appreciate beauty

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(This isn’t my photo.)

 

My phone, which I use to post here, is broken! I’m ususing my kkindle now and its kind of slow n difficult to use for blogging but that won’t stop me! My goal is to post or reblog at least one inspiring thing each day! And this photo is a beautiful reminder! Let’s consciously take in, cherish, and appreciate each beautiful thing we find in whichever form it comes to us and not just appreciate what we happen to find but look for the beauty everywhere each day!

My dad is buying me a new phone and it will be coming in the mail soon! A marshmallow droid 6.0! Maybe it will have a WordPress app!! πŸ˜€

Much love & light, always,

 

Xoxo Kim

For the Fear of Death

I love this!! As the saying goes “what we do for ourselves dies with us but what we do for others lives on.” ❀ Life has to eventually end; it's just the way it goes. But if we live as best as we can, keep evolving, living, loving and doing for others, forgive, move forward, help and give in any ways we can, then we live a full life and dying will be easier. ❀

True Forgiveness

Incredibly inspiring!! It’s so great to keep this in mind whenever we do not like something that someone does, says, or feels.
We are not our delusions.
This is a loving sentiment that can guide us on our journey of love & compassion. ❀ πŸ˜€

Tara Praises's avatarAwakening the Light of Wisdom

β€œAlthough living beings’ minds are filled with delusions, living beings themselves are not faulty. Β We say that sea water is salty, but in fact it is the salt in the water that makes it salty, not the water itself. Β The real taste of water is not salty. Β Similarly, all the faults we see in people are actually the faults of their delusions, not of the people themselves.”

Eight Steps to Happiness pg. 78

By Geshe Kelsang Gyatso

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Imprints. <3

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“We all take different paths in life, but no matter where we go, we take a little of each other everyhwere.” ~ Tim McGraw ❀

I got this really old penny not too long ago. It's a 1919 wheat penny. I'm not really into coins or a collector but I love wheat pennies! Especially this one because it's the oldest one I ever saw.

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And here it is next to a 1956 one(also a wheatie).

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Old coins remind me of that quote above. I love thinking of all the people who touched the coin before me. I hold in my hand a penny that someone touched, carried, held in 1919! It’s so amazing!

I imagine someone walking up a cobblestone street, possibly in Philadelphia, with this penny.

It probably no longer has the fingerprints on it of those back then because so many have touched it since then. But it’s inspiring to think of how this penny made it to 2016 and has been touched by many.

I LOVE old things that people have touched before me, years, decades, centuries ago. ❀

I wrote about my love for antiquarian books here:

https://inspirationalgem.wordpress.com/2014/02/22/for-the-love-of-antiquarian-books-things-touched/

One of my favorite things about old money and old, used books is how they have been a part of so many lives, so many people, through the good & bad, the ugly & beautiful, the laughter and tears, the love & pain….

So many of our lives cross indirectly by the things we touch. Forever imprints.

I hope you are having a beautiful day or night wherever in the world you are! ❀

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xoxo Kim

Life-Changing Wisdom

I always love this simple but profound wisdom! Yes, it’s better, more effective, to focus on our own journey and progress than compare it to others in a negative way. We all live at our own pace, have our own skills and experiences and there’s no sense comparing ours to the lives of others. And we can allow others to inspire and motivate us instead of getting jealous, frustrated, or depressed. Comparison is almost never good whether we feel we come up short or feel that we are better somehow than someone else. Let’s celebrate the success and beauty of others and our own selves! πŸ˜€ ❀